Some dancers happen to be more up front about their real life situation than others. Those few are the ones who I always seemed to develop a real connection with. I would prefer to spend my time and my money with a honest happily married dancer with two kids . . . than the most sexy, vivacious bombshell that promised everything to everyone . . . but delivered nothing but purposeful cruel heartache to everyone around her. That is the kind of dancer that management, customers and even other dancers avoid and despise. Even if I had absolutely NO shot of EVER getting together with them in my bed . . . the ones who opened up and showed part of who they really were got my attention. Much to the confusion of all of the bimbo barracudas that seem to try and take over most clubs. .....